"Do you want to be right -- and alone?"

Consider softening an approach. Reconsidering a criticism or hard-line stance on a matter could improve a relationship or love life. In matters of love, reason, statistics or facts may not add up to happiness and they could mean a cold heart, particularly if one is holding out for this conditional approval. In an ironic twist, it could be a respectful, compassionate refusal to defer or obey that breaks him or melts his heart or gets him to make an exception to the rule. Avoid the temptation to retaliate in kind or to take preemptive measures that could be premature. Know that love and truth will find a way, with or without him. Love is partly emotion and partly and magic

I have a strong sense of self and I am not too likely to lose myself in a relationship. With that in mind, it's okay to become very attached to a loved one. I can be part of a couple and still be an individual. Yet, the arrow is pointing straight to my forehead and its heading my heart to distress.

I am resigned to the inevitability of the task at hand because of its inherent value, so I am efficient, productive and leave my mark in the details. I am empowered by near success and my asset is the ability to just do it. Still, my purpose is despicable. I may be compatible on multiple levels! I think about preoccupations long enough, but when it's time to take action, I just go for it.