Wednesday, July 30, 2008
THE SEARCH IS OVER
Who am I to blame you for doubting what you feel
I was always reachin', you were just a girl I knew
I took for granted the friend I have in you
I was living for a dream, loving for a moment
Taking on the world, that was just my style
Now I look into your eyes
I can see forever, the search is over
You were with me all the while
Can we last forever, will we fall apart
At times it's so confusing, these questions of the heart
You followed me through changes and patiently you'd wait
Till I came to my senses through some miracle of fate
I was living for a dream, loving for a moment
Taking on the world, that was just my style
Now I look into your eyes
I can see forever, the search is over
You were with me all the while
Now the miles stretch out behind me
Loves that I have lost
Broken hearts lie victims of the game
Then good luck it finally struck
Like lightning from the blue
Every highway leading me back to you
Now at last I hold you, now all is said and done
The search has come full circle
Our destinies are one
So if you ever loved me
Show me that you give a damn
You'll know for certain
The man I really am
I was living for a dream, loving for a moment
Taking on the world, that was just my style
Then I touched your hand, I could hear you whisper
The search is over, love was right before my eyes
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Provisional Remedies
1. Heirs of the late Ex-Justice Jose B.L. Reyes, et. al. represented by Adoracion Reyes, et al. vs. Court of Appeals and Metro Manila Builders, Inc.
2. National Mines and Allied Workers Union vs Vera 133 scra 259
3. Senate Blue Ribbon Committee vs. Majaducon 407 SCRA 356
4. Phil Sinter Corp. vs Cagayan Electric Light and Power Co. Inc. 381 SCRA 582
5. Dela Ventures Resources Inc. vs. Cabato 327 SCRA 521
6. Yupangco Cotton Mills Inc. vs. Court of Appeals 373 SCRA 451
ESTEEM
Letting down my guard to make an impulsive connection could release sexual tension or break a relationship stand-off, or it may precede a romantic reunion, infatuation or confrontation. While I might think that taking the first step is beneath me, I can make a move while still being respectful of my own feelings. On the contrary, efforts to remain distant, anonymous or indifferent may not work once admissions are made, blinders are removed or previous hurts are recognized or overcome. I may be too close to the situation to view the matter objectively. Should I listen to the voice of reason and see the truth.
Being an Observer Participant, whose uncertain opportunity, acts as huckster in a carnival ride of free will, motive and time by assuming roles of game host and player linked by chains of events, or to hedge bets against a Greater Fool. Anything goes. Everything counts. Fate or Luck by relative to preordained or random turns are subject to short-sighted cheats or social brands of justice. But it's my entitlement, input, fear, or anticipation along the chain that "spins" labels into gold or coal! Today is a chance to fix, stir or dip into the Quantum Soup, boiling six degrees of separation from connecting to enough, waiting for the bill or dessert to close the meal in hindsight. But to self-correct by priority I put it on my list, pay my dues by choice and can see it coming to pass full circle.
If my heart isn't in it, then I should get off from the emotional roller coaster. If my heart is in it, should I pour out my feelings to the one I love before it's too late. Crying over spilt milk, taking things too personally, turning my back on potential romance or commitment or drowning sorrows may be excuses for avoiding a confrontation with the stranger in the mirror. Loneliness born of fear or damaged self-esteem may lay hidden beneath a calm exterior. I should learn to depend upon myself for fulfillment, attention, interest and consideration. The satisfaction gleaned from others' approval is temporary and superficial. Should I work toward wholeness and happiness by being willing to expand my own expectations. Should I Embrace the commitment and sacrifice necessary to cross my own emotional boundaries.
Saturday, July 12, 2008
Realization.
I am not my mistakes. I can't do this alone or pretend any more. The illusion of comfort in denial or sacrifice is no longer mine. There is no shame in my suffering -- no healing in silent self-torment. It is here at the surreal crossroads of the "soul search" where dawning truth meets the anguish of overwhelming resistance in mind over matter that I can finally wake up, change my mind, let go of what no longer works or own my losses or choices. I am empowered by intense acknowledgment or epiphany and my virtue is gratitude or relief in recognition.
An element of suffering could be difficult to handle regardless of my ability to walk away from an unhealthy situation. Denial may be worn like a cloak to hide a fear of intimacy or feelings of vulnerability. I must face unresolved issues, loss and emotional baggage. A sobering change, failure or good-bye may be inevitable, but I have reason to be grateful as well as disappointed. Taking a chance and confronting the issue could create an opportunity for reconciliation, commitment, or support that has been waiting in the wings. The situation may actually strengthen the bonds in an existing relationship when a devoted partner or reliable alliance stands by my side throughout the ordeal. When I least expect it, I could find myself happy again. I trust my heart and I open myself to forgiveness and romance.
While rising to the occasion. I keep my options open and am ready to "use it or lose it." I set trends or may be considered a "fashionista" and I initiate exciting opportunities to get attention, conquer fears, enhance reputation or image, or to express or inspire liberation-often by extreme measures. I am empowered by ambition or the "zest in quest" and I transform through charismatic communication of passion. But with all this and that, this is still me and this is all it has been me. Hence, there is no such good thing that comes the easiest way.
Thursday, July 10, 2008
GIKAWAT AKONG BAG
unya kay ipareso na, hilak-hilakan daun ko sa mga asawa??? bayaran nlng daw ko sa kawatan, dili lang daw nko cya ipareso ug pasayloon lang nako cya pero dili jud niya angkonon na gikawat niya akong bag??? unya narecover sa iyang mga maayong kamot??? huh?!! kuyawa nya no??? daghan cya choices!!! maayo pa cya!!! gutsy! nagtoo jud ang kawatan na mapalit lang nya akong buty... cge go... dangaway ta ani!!! kung sa bagay, in case of doubt, criminal law is strictly construed in favor of the accused... hay?!
Saturday, July 5, 2008
BLISSFULL SUNDAY
Everyone…longs to give themselves completely to someone… to have a deep soul relationship with another, to be loved thoroughly and exclusively, but GOD is saying to the Christian “NO”, not until you are satisfied, fulfilled and content with being in love with me alone…
I love you my child and until you discover that only in me is your satisfaction to be found. You will not be capable of the perfect relationship that I have planned for you. You will never be united with another until you are united with me… Exclusively of anyone or anything else, exclusive of any other desires or longings.
I want… you to stop wishing, stop planning, stop dreaming and allow me to give you the most thrilling fun you can ever imagine. I want you to have the best, so please allow me to bring that to you… Just keep watching and expect the greatest things. Keep on listening and learning to what I tell you.
YOU MUST WAIT. Don’t be anxious, don’t worry. Don’t look around… at the things other have gotten or those I have given them. Don’t look at those things you think you want. Just keep looking up to me, or you’ll miss what I will show to you. And then… I’ll surprise you with the love far more wonderful than anyone could ever dream of. But not when you are ready and until the one that I have for you is ready.
I am working right this minute so that both you and the life partner that I have prepared for you would be able to experience the love that exemplifies your relationship with me, and this is PERFECT LOVE, And dear one… I want you to have this wonderful LOVE, I want you to see in the flesh the picture of your relationship with me and love that I offer you with myself, know that I LOVE YOU utterly.
“I am GOD ALMIGHTY and nothing is impossible with me.” Believe and be satisfied!
ALL ABOUT LOVING
"I AM NOT GOOD AT IT BUT SOMEHOW LEARN FROM IT"
It is a mystery why we fall in love. It is a mystery why love sometimes grows and why love sometimes fails. You can analyze and look for reasons and causes but you will never do anymore than take out of life experience.
Love is more than the sum of the interest, attractions, and commonalities that two people share. And just as life itself is a gift that comes and goes in its time, the coming of love must be taken unfathomable gift that cannot be questioned in its way.
Too often when love comes to people, they try to hold it to them, refusing to see that it is gift that freely moves away. When they fall out of love or the person they love feels the spirit of love leaving, they try to reclaim one love that is lost rather than accepting the gift for what it was.
They want answers – there are no answers. They want to know what is wrong with them or they try to get their love change, thinking that if one small thing were different, love would bloom again. They blame their circumstances. They blame each other. They try anything to give the meaning to what has happened. But there is no meaning beyond the love itself, and until they accept its own mysterious ways, they live in a sea of misery.
You need to treat what love brings you with kindness. If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn’t choose to rest in the other person’s heart.
If you find someone in love with you whom you feel no love, feel honored that love came and called at your door but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage. Do not cause pain. How you deal with love is how love deals with you and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys even if our lives and ways are very different.
If you fall in love with another that falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or assess blame. Let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning you will know it in time but time itself will choose the moment.
Remember this. Keep it in your heart. You don’t choose love, love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes to your life. Feel the way it feels you to overflowing then reach out and give it to the person who brought it to you. Give it to others who seem poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in any way you can.
Love has its own time, its own reason and its own reasons for coming and going. You cannot bribe it, coerce it, or reason it to staying. If it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do. Be glad that it came to your life and live for a moment. If you keep out heart open, it will surely come again.
Keep smiling!
Excess: love comes to people who open their heart to love’s mystery. To those who hope although they’ve been disappointed. To those who will believe although they’ve been betrayed. To those who still love and need to be love although they’ve been hurt before.
Friday, July 4, 2008
EXPRESSING MY SELF (ANSWER TO SURVEY)
1. Give me random lyrics from the song you're listening to?
== when you look me in the eyes and you tell me that you love me everything’s alright…. When you’re here by my side… when you look me in the eyes (from FM station)
2. Do you think you are approachable?
== of course not!!! Some people think I’d roar if they’ll get any closer! Ahahhahaha
3. Do you regret doing anything this week?
== yah! Entering the world of politics… I can’t stand the practice nor should I say the malpractice!! Ahahahha but it is bearable so long as they will not strike on my principles.
4. Name 3 things everyone knows about you?
== Frank; Maldita; and Certified Igater!!!
5. what/who are you missing?
== Bedrock world in stoneage.. yabadabadooh!!
6. Name someone you know whose name begins with a B?
== Bartlome
7. Have you been pressured to do anything recently?
== ya! My job(s) and law skul!!! I need a total rest!!! As in sleeping the whole week!!! Can I???
8. What makes you happy at this moment?
== ???
9. What color are your eyes?
== Brown
10. Do you have your tonsils and wisdom teeth?
== yah!
11. What side of the bed do you sleep on?
== All over it. clockwise or counter clockwise, that’s me asleep.
12. Do you like your significant other to be aggressive or passive?
== Aggressive. I don’t want to be with a dead person.
13. Would you rather go camping or to a five star hotel?
== FIVE STAR HOTEL!!! I want to be treated like a queen in general.
Ambisyosa jud!!!!
14. What do you want on your birthday?
== nothing!!! Just world peace! ahahahhaha
15. What's your worst habit?
== secwet!!! Ahuh!!! Hehehhehe… to know it you need to be so close to me. (ahmmm)
16. If you could own a non-traditional pet what would it be?
== I only had one pet in my life and her name was “pachuchay” a terrier dog… I don’t want anyone else… I miss her.. she was my first child and the prettiest.
17. Would you rather feel pain or be completely numb?
== I can’t comment. Pain is painful! Numbness is emotionless… either way I just savor every moment so long as it doesn’t occur everyday.
18. Do you find it easier to forgive or forget?
== FORGIVE. I can never forget those that have left marks on me.
19. Would you ever stay with someone just because you didn't want to break their heart?
== yah! I am selfless. I know the feeling so I can’t imagine doing the same to another. No comment nalang… I don’t know.
20. Do you hate being alone?
== No. in fact, sometimes I’d rather be alone than be with someone who is physically present but emotionally absent and the other way around.
21. Do you like competition?
== Ohhh… yeah!!! One way or the other, it is a way to know your edge to go beyond your limit and my validation is self worth.
22. How late did you stay up last night?
== I was so tired last night, I couldn’t remember anymore the time I went to bed… all I wanted was to lay down and sleep.
23. What was the first thing you thought this morning?
== WHY so busy for me but not on CB?
24. What did you do last night?
== sleep……
25. What are you going to do this weekend?
== READ…….. and read and read…….. I need to catch up to pass!
26. What were you doing this morning at 7AM?
==
27. What were you doing this afternoon at 12PM?
== EAT lunch.
28. Do you know someone with the initials M.P.?
== I can’t remember.
Thursday, July 3, 2008
When you tell me that you love me
---lyrics lang para kasabay mo sa akong music bar. hehehhe
as per request and NOT TO MENTION daw the name kay mashy cya! ahahahha----
I wanna make you see
Just what I was
Show you the loneliness
And what it does
You walked into my life
To stop my tears
Everything’s easy now
I have you here
And baby
Everytime you touch me
I become a hero
I’ll make you safe
No matter where you are
And bring you
Everything you ask for
Nothing is above me
I’m shining like a candle in the dark
When you tell me that you love me
In a world without you
I would always hunger
All I need is your love to make me stronger
And baby
Everytime you touch me
I become a hero
I’ll make you safe
No matter where you are
And bring you
Everything you ask for
Nothing is above me
I’m shining like a candle in the dark
When you tell me that you love me
You love me
When you tell me that you love me
I don’t want you to go
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
Lies in Attraction
I have a vested interest or am committed to sharing my vision, ideals, or game plan in order to make a connection. I am willing to step up because it takes two and I can't win if I don't play. Anything is possible. I am empowered by the passion of my own potential and I transform through self-discipline. Work-related issues are on my mind and can't be ignored for any longer. I may find that I've got secret support from people I'd never expect to take my side, so I act with confidence!
Today has the potential to be quite a delightful day. Then again, it could all go horribly wrong. If it's the latter then it appears that karma has finally caught up with me. There's no escaping it, Styf. One way to test the importance of my position is to make a mistake. It won't be a lasting or embarrassing one, but it will definitely drive home the importance of what I do. So do it well, today gurl!!! (that’s the spirit)
Second-guessing, interfering or trying to over control my relationship or romantic game plan could result in feelings of disappointment, resentment, jealousy or feeble justifications for being stuck in a negative cycle or being unlucky in love. If I allow myself to settle for less than I deserve, that is exactly what I get. Today is a blank slate, and the choice to make it good or bad is in my hands. And while I can only control my own life, my positive energy can have a big impact on my partner's day, too. I’m dying to escape my responsibilities, but I’m too straight-laced and righteous to have a good time. May be I should consider being a little reckless and go out, yeah goody-goody, but I had too much alcohol already because of last Saturday’s “Cool-age of Law”
Turning on the charm could be part of a romantic strategy, and emotional resolve may crumble in favor of satisfying lust, desire or revenge. The attraction or release may seem sweet at first, but it could backfire, resulting in remorse or anger. I make a conscious effort to see beyond the moment or control my passions, otherwise I may end up feeling dissatisfied. I don't have to be sexual to feel valued. I told you, the secret to my sexiness is celibacy! Ahahahhaha Even the happiest people sometimes have doubts. If I’m not sure I’m on the right path, I spend some time doing a bit of soul searching. I am enthusiastic about, and take pride in my new found validation or potential and will use it as a motivator towards greater things. My asset is self-worth.
This is the after effect of reading and digesting too much cases and having to sleep from 12mn to 7am. kachar-charan!!! nagbasa jud daw kuno ko??? Just expressing my horizon into words checking if I am still sane, so far, slight lang natarog! (haahahhahaha) phew! Kapoy!!!! Buti nalang may blog. Truly, indeed blogging world is my only escape. Looy sad!!!
Well… well… well… the sun has risen and this has been Styf signing off. Happy blood sucking to all the vampires in law skul!!! Cheers to that! Hayz…. lolz
Monday, June 30, 2008
"Do you want to be right -- and alone?"
I have a strong sense of self and I am not too likely to lose myself in a relationship. With that in mind, it's okay to become very attached to a loved one. I can be part of a couple and still be an individual. Yet, the arrow is pointing straight to my forehead and its heading my heart to distress.
I am resigned to the inevitability of the task at hand because of its inherent value, so I am efficient, productive and leave my mark in the details. I am empowered by near success and my asset is the ability to just do it. Still, my purpose is despicable. I may be compatible on multiple levels! I think about preoccupations long enough, but when it's time to take action, I just go for it.
Friday, June 27, 2008
This is an emotional blackmail carina
Carina Wrote to her BLOG:
........char-char!
If in absence i can see and feel you
Help me define the hurt i can bear to thee
When i sorrow most it's you i see
For love and life and death with you i see
.
Help me regain my freedom against my woes of fear
Tired to seek of me in you, let me free
It's more fatal seeing you again
For love and life and death with you i see
.
Your presence made my whole system paralyzed
Tears dropped so hard but not from my eyes
Why should i suffer so hard as this, please define me
For love and life and death with you i see
.
Wherever i go you're casting a shadow over me
Help me define the love that mislead me into believing
Maybe my tears runs just as far that you'll never see
For love and life and death with you i see
.
Help me forget the love that i hate
This has been my crime against myself
The world will never ever know specially you
For love and life and death with you i see
.
You're a fatal thread that wraps my spirit, let me free
With you i knew that love is sweet
That life is sweet and death is sweet
For love and life and death with you i see
.
If there is life after death
I wish our world will never be the same again
And if there is love after life
I wish that love will never be the same again
.meant to be
For love and life and death with you i see.
For Carina:
A NEGATIVE EVIDENCE --- I am denying the descriptive texts. It does not refer to me. Imagine people, she said she looked all over for me just to tell me that she was thinking about me when she was writing this poem??? HUH?! Where is justice? I thought were friends??? L
Animal jud ka carina!!! wala kay batasan!!! And now moingon ka sa ako in person that this poem was intentionally written for me, that I should read it??? how dare you to blog my emotional life in public???? Daan pa lagi ko… I should have listened to my instincts in deciding not to view this post at all!!! Mokulot jud nang buhok nimo samot anime ka when I’ll see you!!!
Ouch! Ouch! Anyway, just overly reacting! Ahehehehe but that doesn’t make us even then. For your info gurl, you are just dreaming so Wake up!!! Wake up!!! Ambisyosa jud ka carina ai…. Bantay lang jud ka sa ako! This is an old news gurl (interlocutory evidence na!), find something new to spice up your blogging world galore!!! dramatic kaau ka gurl, award winning jud! certified PRA-PRA! Hehhehehe
Obviously you are hurt with that boylet!!! ayaw nako idamay sa imong kadramahan ba. Hala goooo! Express your self tonight sa law skul drinking spree! Iyabo ng imong gibati luka-luka ka! hehehehe
SURVEY
1. Latest realization?
== Secret!!! J
2. Do’s if you are lonely?
== Go to secluded places, drink some beer and yell as loud as I can!!! Brutal oi….express yourself to Mother Nature (penshoppe! ahahahha)
3. Things you want to do that you have not tried doing?
=== Bungee jumping! Sky diving! All the extreme sports anyone could imagine
4. Favorite food?
=== Crabs!!! Shrimps!!! Octopus!!! Basta sea food
=== Kitchen
6.What's the title of the song that's stuck in your mind?
=== "Have You Ever" by BRANDY (you may listen at it to my music bar)
7. Dream summer get-away trip?
===
8. One thing you cannot say NO?
=== huh?! Mental black out!!! Wala’y kuryente karon??? Unsa ni???
9. Enjoyable leisure to when it’s raining?
=== Go out and take a bath in the rain
10. Things you will thrift a lot for?
=== aside from my son’s future… my books, tuition fee and LAPTOP!!!
11. What will you do in your next birthday?
=== Do idea.. no plan of celebrating
12. One thing you can’t bare and last doing?
=== pretending in general sense
13. Movie you want to watch?
=== I am not updated anymore
14. Do you love cooking?
=== super!!! “I love to eat that’s why I love to cook”, mag-explain ba!!??
15. What are you if you are annoyed?
=== Dark angel
16. Do you spend so much time taking a bath?
=== No. my longest is 15mins.
17. Do you eat vegetables?
=== yes while it is true that real girls eat meat
18. Are you lazy?
=== sometimes, I am a busy person so when its rest day I am lazy
19. Who do you often talk to the phone?
=== bosses and their secretaries
20. Who is your constant text mate?
=== I still do not have a cellphone!!! Tambal sa mga “anga-anga”
21. Who is always with you when you go home?
=== my angel from up above
22. Are you a busy person?
=== super !!! A mother when I wake up, an entrepreneur by morning, a teacher and tutor, a legal researcher, a public employee in the afternoon, a law student by night, and a mother before and/or after midnight. (Vow!!!)
23. What/who do you hate most?
=== plastics and traitors and not to mention persons who do not think. My God!! We are created with individual brains. (expressing lang!! mabwesit ko oi!!
24. What (who) makes you happy?
=== ahem… secret!!! Ahahhaha (my imaginary friend)
25. If given a chance to have one wish, what would it be?
=== To TOP the BAR EXAM on 2010 (One is not enough!! Alladin had three!!!)
Thursday, June 26, 2008
kadramahan
The first and most optimistic stance to take is that you have already experienced the moment of realization. Its either to let go or move forward, and I may be quite ready to accept the inevitable change that must come on its heels. I am putting things into perspective and not crying over spilt milk, and am confident in my assertion of no more tears and self-pity. Conversely, I may be using this moment of truth as a means of denying or ignoring the warning signs, or am overly rational to keep from losing it. If I don't want a recurrence of the pain or sorrow, take steps to move to the next level of actually letting go. It's time to accept, forgive and then raise my own standards. Then move on and mean it. Just being overly dramatic for someone who really makes me smile. So please lang if you care about your life walay moreact or I’ll shoot you! Ahahahhaha during eclipse lang baya ako hopeless romantic!!!
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Lost of Blood
I have read from the Mindanao Bloggers Group about "the nosebleed club" which was "named as such" by Dominique Cimafranca after Bone MD posted his experience in a bloggers party where he was seated in a table with the people whom he described as "everything-i-don't-know-they-knew-guys"... I believed that it was a not just a comical description but also an honest remark that not all bloggers are super techie, but the catch is - - - we all are united in blogging for Mindanao and blogging for good content although not all of us can relate to RSS and all that techie stuff...
Honestly, I wish to personally know Bone MD. Why? Because he is an orthopedic surgeon! He could be the answer to my prayers... The answer to my scoliosis!
Nosebleed... Law school life is super harsh specially on MWF schedule when we have to deal with both Dean Quitain and Atty. Torreña's firing-squad recitation.. They are really great teachers and I know it's really very hard to "crawl" into it but I know that its all worth it... Nobody said law school is easy...
I'll be organizing a fraternity soon... And it will be called "The Nosebleed Fraternity." Membership will be exclusive to the law students of the
~bwahahah! (--,)
STYF’s Reply:
Bwahahahahahha! I second the motion! Motion for Reconsideration may not even be tenable with these best actors in law school. Don’t worry gurl, as soon as you are able to complete all pertinent requirements of your seriousness to organize a fraternity, expect my full support to file a motion for Writ of Preliminary Injunction against your fraternity to inhibit you from exerting rehabilitation programs for casualties, for the ends of equitable justice against those who are not able to make it AT ALL as fairness supersedes nugatory sentiments. My goodness, every night in law school is a nightmare! As far as Law students are concerned, they are super good teachers yet undeniably students’ study behavior are despicable. I have a better suggestion in case your proposition fails, why not execute an action compelling all law students to wear stiletto shoes (male/female), it is very helpful to regulate blood pressure especially when so tense and under pressure. At least this way, the guard will have to come up with another deal to law students aside from straps!
Anyway nobody pushed me to this vocation, if it were so, happy nose bleeding to all!!! hahahaha
Look at the brighter side sweet, you have to deal with these actors in your MWF schedules only--- ask me, I have to deal with these actors from Mondays to Saturdays.... imagine my nose bleeding??? for sure by the end of this semester, lost of blood will be my another challenge next to my scoliosis! ahahhaha
Friday, June 20, 2008
hahay..... there is no treatment to insecurity carina
see you around gurl... passi sa ko karon kay dili na jud mkaya ang abdominal pains... dili kayanon pati sa akong blog
Carina Wrote:
Kah,,,abi nq sa "4 life nd luv and death with u i see" ka mag comment kah..kaw bya aq naisip while writing that...bagay man xa sa imoha...hahah...i almost texted u but u have no # napud ka kay tanga-tanga man..nagahulat jud q mag comment k did2 Kah,,shocks nalang q sa DIVORCE k nag-comment...wahehehehe....nywayzzzz
Sunday, June 15, 2008
Divorce in the RP
"divorce"
The family Code of the
Marriage is a special contract of permanent union between a man and a woman entered into in accordance with law for the establishment of conjugal and family life. It is the foundation of the family and an inviolable social institution whose nature, consequences, and incidents are governed by law ...etcetera .........
According to the Catechism :
Man is created in the image and likeness of God who is himself love. Since God created him man and woman, their mutual love becomes an image of the absolute and unfailing love with which God loves man. And this love which God blesses is intended to be fruitful and to be realized in the common work of watching over creation...
A Law Student's Comment:
Divorce should be legalized here in Philippines......nyahahaah tukar nasad ko........( Wala lang nakausap ko lang ang guy friend kung gusto ng makipaghiwalay.:( Bitaw uy why let the two individual suffer so much with each others company when everything along with the relationship seems becoming more and more difficult to work out? What is that, hypocrisy?
Yeah, there are still some who believes marriage as holy, that it must be treated with reverence.......but, perhaps, God never said for us to be hypocrite because for some marriage only means to them as preserving the tie and keeping the bond and relationship even if the feelings is no longer there,.......Our present law is defiant and hypocrite to the reality, likewise the framers of our law, and all of us filipinos in general,, nyahaha...We have annulment at declaration of nullity pero ky hirap ng mga grounds, atsaka mahal...nyahahah...We also have legal separation pero walang kwenta eee,,,nyayyy!:) Does God said that man should shoulder unnecessary sacrifices?..duh! Nyway, just an opinion, don't intepret it in a bad light....;)... Anywayz,,, laws evolve.............. :)..But Filipinos do evolve?......duh!....:)
Hayzzzz,,,,ewan. But as for me, divorce is a better one...Dapat magkaroon na tayo ng divorce law, anywayz it is an option only for those who have unsuccesful marriage,....yung mga successful one, well, padayon! :)
And this is all I can say:
ahahahhaha ohh carina I am very sorry I am so ignoramus on this part! ahahahahha I didn’t realize until your second page na ingon ini diay ni cya! ahahhaha sowee jud... I want to comment on this divorce issue... hmmmm grave... true gurl.. not all marriages are made from heaven! lisod jud! I’d rather stay in neutral. Kung ako lang pabut-on, since the definition for marriage by law itself states that its is a bilateral contract, why not propose to make it renewable every five (5) years instead... (more or less nyahahahahhah) Hence marriage is an irrevocable contract, that leaves me speechless-- ayaw nalang mo minyo oi! kapoy ba ani! galabad akong head! shwag-shwag nalang mo! practice makes perfect! hehehehe
Now, is this proposition of an exact epitome of an equitable justice??? No comment! Aja! Life is short, fill it as if there is no more tomorrow because you might not realize that it will only take a glimpse to make your self happy. Basta, ako??? I have spent my last 8 years making other person happy and it was only later I realized that I already forgot what happiness is all about... ouch! Love your self the best to be the best person for that best person you want to love. At least, if it will resort to marriage and marriage will fail... that is beyond the ends of forces of nature, and you know you have taken an extra mile to make it last.
What is this preservation of the sanctity of marriage all about when it already loses the real and true meaning of marriage. While it is true that one cannot pretend forever just to stay married, respect for self and to another must neither be not compromised nor be placed in jeopardy. No comment on the legal grounds for Nullity of Marriage and Annulment; but for legal separation? It’s damn and whoever avails it, he is damnatory (sorry for the remark). Legal Separation is useless, which ever we look at it and in the long run, they just found a valid reason to become infidel making cheating legal. The marriage in Legal Separation is still valid, existing and only the conjugal rights are resolved, from the liquidation of kids, assets, properties down to the liabilities. What it is thereafter? Elicit cohabitation with another partner is permitted but not legalized since either the man or woman, who is declared as legally separated, is barred from contracting another marriage.
Once again, I respect the framers of our Laws, these are just a constant reminder of an individual's initiative to get involved to current issues and this is my opinion.
Wanted Carina Dead or Dead
Hoi Carina, What is this all about? Why are you blogging my name to your blog account, Shudi ko understand gurl…. Ahahahhaha please do the explaining to me ASAP, okems? It is very obvious that you are compelling me to do the commenting portion!!! Have you forgotten the quote, ”actus me invito factus non est meus actus" an act done by me against my will is not my act." Ahhhh!!! Tan-tanan nyo na aketch! Please no more love problems… I could already puke! I am losing my blood with the topic. Pagurl ka pa naman, why are you cursing the world??? My expressions “futah!” is getting contagious huh?! Ahahahhaha (LOL!) Are you in your lucid interval again? You really sound like freak… you are in loving galore no??? Well, that must be G.G. Carina! Not Gugmang Giatay but --- Gaba-Gaba! Hahaahhahaha Plus not to mention, you dared to post this “kuyakevin.com” Real Advise for Filipinos Love and Relationship (UNSA?! Hahahaha) Comedian lagi ka gurl!!! Ikaw na jud na ai!!! Talk ta later ok, just not now coz I have to kayod first! Very busy my beauty with all these kakiness in life. Huh?! That boylet of yours has soo thick face huh! Playing hard to get! So what! The world is not going to end tonight no!!! Let lose and don’t be so bothered, there are still a lot of monkeys wearing Jeans darling! Hay?! High blood pressure is on the air…. ahahhaha
Carina Wrote:
denedeadma kc aketch
Denedeadma kc aketch e......nyahahha! futah amfufufuufufufu....can't wait that long..................:)
Nahahawa na talaga aketch sa mga expression ng mga tao sa group ko in DELUGE.............shityty.
Hayyyzzzzzzzz,,, well, well, well, buti nga.....
New phase na aketch!
Hayyzzzzzzz.diko kaya ang magpaka-secretive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!..nyahahahah.Kay dami kung gustong sabihin sa mundo e,,,i want the world to know,,nyahahah,,,hay naku baka mag-over react pa kayo, hwag na lang....ky Venus ko nalang sasabihin....hmmmnnf.
soweeeeeeeeeeeeeee..........
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Saturday, June 14, 2008
Jiggle for girls
One for the girls Now I lay me down to sleep I pray the Lord my shape to keep. Please no wrinkles, Please no bags And please lift my butt before it sags. Please no age spots, Please no gray And as for my belly, Please take it away. Please keep me healthy, Please keep me young, And thank you Dear Lord, For all that you've done. Five tips for a woman.... 1. It is important that a man helps you around the house and has a job. 2. It is important that a man makes you laugh. 3. It is important to find a man you can count on and doesn't lie to You. 4. It is important that a man loves you and spoils you. HA HA HA HA Don't take it seriously and just keep smiling, its for free!!! |
A Special Greeting To My Father
Most Daddies’ girls would often say that theirs is the best daddy one could ever have in this world. I would say mine too. Happy Father’s day to all the Fathers and to my Dad Billy, Happy Birthday, too.
My Dad is a simple man. He does not even talk that much and has stilt expectations. Despite that, he never made me feel the boundaries of a father-child relationship. He even goes across the board. I am known to be my Daddy's brat, he gives me everything I need which is mostly extended to my extravagant wants. I am a Daddy's girl, I admit. I always wanted to be the best girl he wants me to be and somehow live up with his expectations. I know I failed him at certain times but instead of reminding me of my being a disappointment, he embraced my failures and never say a word at my disgrace.
To all the daddy's girls, daughters and sons out there --love your daddy and never take them forgranted. Do not judge them the way your Moms describe them -- for sure, there were reasons for their shortcomings. Take an extra mile to know them better, as a father who has made you exist today. Spend the most times with them because you will never know when will you see them and be with them again. Tell them how much you love and appreciate all the things they do for you and make them feel how much they are loved in return. Do that everyday and not only on Father's day.
A For All Advise
"To all my friends who are constantly seeking for a love advise --- please, I am not good at it! I can't even solve mine hehehehe but anyway I will still try and these are only about it. Thanks for trusting me and I hope this will be a help"
If you are overly focused on domestic responsibilities or other people's needs, then now is a good time to consider taking the initiative and indulging your prerogative, for you could be ripe for a little romance or passion. As long as your heart is in the right place and your intentions are good, it's okay to accept and enjoy a little goddess worship.
Luck is relative -- still, choose wisely and you're not alone. When you envision, expect and choose great things, you will identify, pursue, and experience great things. Keep your options open and acknowledge emotional clutter or unrealistic expectations. You are empowered by desire for meaning and your gift is opportunity or epiphany.
You should celebrate the completion of a journey, transformation or commitment. It's time to back up the ones you love while giving them roots and wings. You can expect the collective sensation of having finally made it as one big happy family. Perhaps the most important lesson to be gleaned from this sense of fulfillment is to simply enjoy being in the moment. Honor and recognize your inner child through spontaneous and passionate expressions. You know that home, happiness and family are where the heart is. This sense of pride and joy may come from a focus on common values, a romantic desire sated or a dream achieved. Either way, you have an opportunity to share the love, express gratitude, expand your relationship and appreciate the stormy road that might have led to this renewal and wholeness.
Sometimes it's difficult for a partner to tell you what they're thinking, so you'll have to learn to read between the lines. Pay attention to the clues they're giving you, and don't be afraid to ask questions, too. Not every conversation has to be deep and meaningful. You have some minor information to impart, so make it short and sweet. That should keep things fun for both of you. Or; Now's the time to focus on yourself and discover what makes you tick and ticked off. Outside of a relationship it's easier to know what you want from your next lover. Write your wish list down. You'll achieve a lot more by compromising with someone than butting heads. Before starting an argument, do a little soul searching and come to the conclusion that you're wrong yet again.
"... so good luck to you! charmousity arises again ahahahahaha!!! Send my regards to all and see you on Monday at Law School. Go to school already and enough of that love problems! Your dream of becoming a Lawyer is a bad influence for your love life! ahahahaha or should it be the other way around??? which ever is... --- I know! I won't say something more that will be a hint of your identity, the readers might recognize you already and if they'll do, they might as well give you a bang on Monday. hehehhehe"
Thursday, June 12, 2008
Learn something from my mistakes
Restlessness, jealousy, animosity or discontent may be getting the better , and might tend to retreat or spend more time lost in thought. Use the time wisely for self-discovery. Be open to meaningful experiences and explore a new dimension of a private life. Don't worry what others think for they may not understand, nor is it any of their business. Find yourself, face the truth and you can find romance.
Intuition and Drama. I trust my intuition and nurture an environment of deep devotion, patience, and intense passion. I mirror my hearts desire and am never too busy to connect to those who trust, love and need me. "It's the thought that counts." Many can say "I would die for them" -- only I can live for them -- spoken with sincerity by a true "Drama Queen." I am empowered by embracing my emotions as a gift and unconditional love is my Holy Grail or gift.
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
Know what is inside of me
Reality doesn't always live up to the fantasy. Denying a joyful or romantic life because of pride, self-pity or fear is a waste. It's worth the courage, sacrifice and effort to hold out for a genuine connection rather than to give into fears of being alone. It may seem easier to fake it, stick with what you know or wish for greener pastures, but ignoring it might only increase the level of longing, regret and anxiety, revealing emptiness where trust, intimacy and fulfilled commitment could be. Choose to take the road less traveled, walk away or instinctually do what is right for you, despite fears of facing the unknown. This involves great personal struggle, but it is worth it. Should you reach a point where you know a change is due, excuses can only further sap your energy and put off the inner transformation or quest for happiness, romance and love you deserve.
My superpower is liberated by free will and trust, which lead me to explore simple speculations for their own sake. I can move beyond the fear factor. I don't know where I'm going, and I don't care where I've been. I only know that, as the hero of my own story, it's for me to find out. For, like Alice, I'm on the verge of stepping into a rabbit hole; unless I stop short and play it safe, I'll know soon enough where following my own feet has landed me on this curious venture. The blissful frailty of unwritten conclusions and unguarded access sweetens the desire. So despite familiar warnings, irresistible promise draws my eyes wide open and away from domestic comfort zones, with only certain inquiry, hope and faith to recommend my course. I'll never know until I try.
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
VIRGO - THE BEST SEXUAL PARTNER
---- am i on the right sign???!!! ahahahaha (lol)